Notice one real detail
Start with something specific from their profile: a place, hobby, song or small opinion. A thoughtful observation shows attention and gives the other person a clear path into the conversation.
Try asking about the café in their photo or the story behind a favourite song. Specific beats a generic hello because it creates a shared subject immediately.
Ask questions with room to play
Questions work best when they invite a story, not an interview answer. Ask about a perfect Sunday, a comfort movie, or the one food they would travel for.
Keep the pace relaxed. One good question and one small detail about yourself is warmer than sending a list of questions.
Let simple be enough
You do not need to perform confidence. Write as you speak, avoid copied lines, and leave space for the other person. If the energy is mutual, the conversation can grow naturally.